Yeah, I was kinda hoping someone could convince me my interpretation of what I saw was incorrect. I made an attempt to ask you something, and instead I was greeted with nothing but more responses that re-iterated my subjective experience.

I said an unkind thing about that community, so when I was presented with the ability to talk to an individual in that community I took it, hoping to see if I was wrong. To give an analogy, sure I can say nasty things about Trumpists, think they are racists by default, doesn’t mean I think all of them are the same thing as what I call their community. Some of them might not be racists.

To play a bit tu quoque and be unkind to you, it sounds like you big mad about me having an experience with your community and you being salty about me not liking your community. That’s fine, that’s your right.

You are however correctly right that the OP post I made wasn’t conducive to a dialogue, wasn’t expecting it when I made it. Didn’t feel like I could ask in your community either though. For all its apparent inclusiveness (I mean I should feel right at home, it’s lgbtqia+ after all) I felt a seriously hostile vibe, which is why I blocked it instead.