

I just had an issue that might be interesting in your case. You can read it up on !newcommunities@lemmy.world, but long story short, the mod of a community wasn’t happy with the way I wanted to bring some meta discussion into the community.
The main difference in this kind of situation between Lemmy and Reddit is that
- the modlog (https://lemm.ee/modlog/408863) is public, allowing everyone to see what the mod did
- it’s very easy to open another community, explain what went wrong with the other one, and keep things going.

Have you tried reaching out to them to talk to them about Lemmy?