As title says, i want to start self hosting but i have a lot of questions about it. For more context, i want to self host XMPP, matrix, Immich, an email, forgejo and a minimal website. i want to ask you:
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Where should i buy my domain and are there any things i should be careful about?
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does the end of my domain (idk the specific name but .XYZ) matter at all?
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I get that i should use a used PC (i have none lying around), but how old?
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Am i willing to self host too much stuff?
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Can i use Gentoo, Devuan, or other non-systemd distros as an OS?
Sorry for the noob questions but i struggle to find answers online, feel free to tell me to RTFM _;
Also, i have experience with Linux as a desktop OS, more specifically 3 years, one of which mostly in gentoo, but i’ve daily driven Arch, Artix, Debian, Void among others


Welcome to the party, you’re going to have a blast (and lots of chances to bang your head against the wall)!
Here’s my take on your questions:
Whatever you do, just remember that it doesn’t need to be perfect immediately. You’re going to mess a bunch of things up and make decisions you’ll wish you hadn’t. You’ll spend a lot of time destroying and recreating things you’ve already done. That’s the joy of self-taught self hosting!